People are unique. Every single person has a unique personality, including me and you. Sometimes people can’t understand me as well as I can’t understand them well.
Treating people isn’t easy. Sometimes they’re unpredictable, and sometimes they have a level of sensitivity multiple times beyond us. Learning to treat people requires a long run. With your partner, it’s lifelong learning.
Yes, they are. That’s why we call them dark. Makes sense?
Having a broken heart is sad. Sometimes the feeling hurts so much like it can’t be handled anymore. For most people, it’s only a normal feeling. It’s getting better afterward.
But we must be aware that for some people, having a broken heart makes them fall into a horrible problem. Some people commit suicide because of a broken heart. It’s not funny at all.
These times dark jokes are almost everywhere. Let’s say a meme implicitly says, “Oh hey, you’re rejected by your crush every time. Pity you. Come on, the world is even fine without you.”.
Most people aren’t facing terrible conditions, so they might be okay. How about the rest of the people? How about the last circumstances? Is there any bad news that makes the joke isn’t a joke?
Do some research. Talk to others, and get enough insights from them. If it’s sensitive, if it’s possible to make things worse, it must be avoided.
On regular days, we think that dark jokes are stupid, and we don’t even will follow them as in our reality. But do you remember that you were doing stupid things as the last choice to fix something?
Didn’t you smack your phone when it took a long time to connect to the internet? Didn’t you punch your mouse or keyboard when your computer was freezing? Didn’t you?
So please keep every joke in its place. Don’t try to put it everywhere. Otherwise, it will be dangerous.
I heard someone knocking my door when I was having a date with my laptop, writing codes as usual, in the working hours.
Wait, not only someone, it was more than just one person. It was different. Normal guests typically wouldn’t knock someone’s door aggressively.
You know what? I could guess that, they were beggars. And they were! 4 beggar women.
Being one of the most generous country, that kind of way of begging is an ironic picture in Indonesia.
There is a couple of investigations that uncover being beggar is a job, making a lot of money by seeking people’s sympathy.
I’m not trying to say that every beggar is begging as a job. We just need to better understand when to give money to beggars.
The beggars I mentioned above, they have come several times to my house. I decided to stop giving after their third return.
You know, they come again this morning. It had been so many times. All of them had been looking healthy. The way they walked, the way they shouted at my house. No sign that they had to beg. What the…!
Giving to every person isn’t going to make us human, instead it makes us robots. Give along with your heart. Give to people that really need.
Have a good day everyone!
I love rain, I love petrichor. I love the atmosphere.
Rain is so precious, even in Islam there’s a special prayer to ask for rain, as well as another prayer when it rains.
Never blame rain, make peace with it. Believe me, when it doesn’t come in a while, you’ll miss it.
I was playing around and randomly checked short blog addresses available on WordPress.com. Hey, pod.home.blog hadn’t been taken! It’s so precious and here it is. I’ll be writing random topics here. Please enjoy.
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